Listening to the survivors who did not post "Me, too."

Like many women I know, today I experienced the dilemma of whether I would post "Me, too" on Facebook or Twitter . As I mentioned in my very first blog post , I harbour a constant feeling of ambiguity regarding my participation in these social media spheres. The "Me, too" movement reaffirmed in a single blast how social media content can send a simultaneous feeling of beautiful solidarity and fearful anxiety surging through my whole body. The more details I read in the stories of sexual assault, harassment and abuse shared by the incredibly strong women I know, the more I feared for their safety and well-being. After admiring their courage and sending them some virtual love ❤︎ , I found myself nervous that, as a consequence of sharing their stories, they may now face further abuse by perpetrators who still do not believe themselves to be abusers . I was filled with anxiety imagining the forms of possible "counter-strikes" from self-righteous abuse...